Diary of a mad bellydancer

I'm just a girl searching for her whale.
red3blog:

alxandrabb:

broccolisoup:

be-bop-a-lu-la:
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couldbeautyhurt:

Correction, you don’t have to be tiny, to look good, however, you may want to find clothing that is flattering, and doesn’t make you look like you are nine months and expecting. Cool shades though.

Hi, that’s me in the photo and I look beautiful. I don’t know if you’ve ever actually seen a pregnant woman (it sounds like you haven’t). But I think it’s fairly obvious that I’m just fat.
I’m not offended or hurt by what you are saying, because I live a charmed life and I am loved (maybe your words could hurt me if I somehow didn’t know that I was attractive or desirable), and it doesn’t matter if someone on the internet thinks my outfit is unflattering. I am bothered by your need to say nasty things about other women as if you think there isn’t an actual real person who is capable of reading your words. What difference does it really make to you what I wear/what my body looks like, and why do you feel the need to be critical of the bodies and appearances of other people?Mostly I’m just embarrassed for you that you’re so rude. I can’t imagine how awful it must be to know that you’re a total dickhead. The guilt and shame alone must be agonizing.

Still one of the best things I’ve read on here. And the girl’s super cute.

she is fucking beautiful.
Its like these people don’t realize we all know that “flattering” is code for “does everything possible to hide your fat body from those who disapprove of it”. Their standards of “flattering” are constructed out of explicit hostility to our bodies. We should feel absolutely no obligation to honor what they think would be “flattering” on us, even when they hold out these false promises of acceptance if we just do as we’re told.
Or, as Gisela Ramirez put it much more succinctly, fuck flattering.

red3blog:

alxandrabb:

broccolisoup:

be-bop-a-lu-la:

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couldbeautyhurt:

Correction, you don’t have to be tiny, to look good, however, you may want to find clothing that is flattering, and doesn’t make you look like you are nine months and expecting. Cool shades though.

Hi, that’s me in the photo and I look beautiful. I don’t know if you’ve ever actually seen a pregnant woman (it sounds like you haven’t). But I think it’s fairly obvious that I’m just fat.

I’m not offended or hurt by what you are saying, because I live a charmed life and I am loved (maybe your words could hurt me if I somehow didn’t know that I was attractive or desirable), and it doesn’t matter if someone on the internet thinks my outfit is unflattering. I am bothered by your need to say nasty things about other women as if you think there isn’t an actual real person who is capable of reading your words. 

What difference does it really make to you what I wear/what my body looks like, and why do you feel the need to be critical of the bodies and appearances of other people?

Mostly I’m just embarrassed for you that you’re so rude. I can’t imagine how awful it must be to know that you’re a total dickhead. The guilt and shame alone must be agonizing.

Still one of the best things I’ve read on here. And the girl’s super cute.

she is fucking beautiful.

Its like these people don’t realize we all know that “flattering” is code for “does everything possible to hide your fat body from those who disapprove of it”. Their standards of “flattering” are constructed out of explicit hostility to our bodies. We should feel absolutely no obligation to honor what they think would be “flattering” on us, even when they hold out these false promises of acceptance if we just do as we’re told.

Or, as Gisela Ramirez put it much more succinctly, fuck flattering.

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thegirlwiththefinchertattoo:

faded-as-my-jeans:

huffpostcomedy:

Stephen Colbert Interviews Maurice Sendak About Newt Gingrich and Tallywackers | Comedy Central

Where The Wild Things Are was my favorite book when I was a kid. My mom used to read it to me so often that we both still have it memorized. I learned how to read with that book. So this is awesome. I’ve read some other interviews with him before and he’s such a badass cranky old man. I love it.

Maurice Sendak is the absolute best.

thegirlwiththefinchertattoo:

faded-as-my-jeans:

huffpostcomedy:

Stephen Colbert Interviews Maurice Sendak About Newt Gingrich and Tallywackers | Comedy Central

Where The Wild Things Are was my favorite book when I was a kid. My mom used to read it to me so often that we both still have it memorized. I learned how to read with that book. So this is awesome. I’ve read some other interviews with him before and he’s such a badass cranky old man. I love it.

Maurice Sendak is the absolute best.

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moonlightstrike:

-jones:

adrien brody:

giovanni auditore:

adrien brody:

giovanni auditore:

adrien brody:

giovanni auditore:

I know I’m not crazy in seeing resemblances :|

and even if you don’t agree, both are nice to look at anyway, yes? ;D

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This is the thing: When you hit 28 or 30, everything begins to divide. You can see very clearly two kinds of people. On one side, people who have used their 20s to learn and grow, to find … themselves and their dreams, people who know what works and what doesn’t, who have pushed through to become real live adults. Then there’s the other kind, who are hanging onto college, or high school even, with all their might. They’ve stayed in jobs they hate, because they’re too scared to get another one. They’ve stayed with men or women who are good but not great, because they don’t want to be lonely. … they mean to develop intimate friendships, they mean to stop drinking like life is one big frat party. But they don’t do those things, so they live in an extended adolescence, no closer to adulthood than when they graduated.

Don’t be like that. Don’t get stuck. Move, travel, take a class, take a risk. There is a season for wildness and a season for settledness, and this is neither. This season is about becoming. Don’t lose yourself at happy hour, but don’t lose yourself on the corporate ladder either. Stop every once in a while and go out to coffee or climb in bed with your journal.

Ask yourself some good questions like: “Am I proud of the life I’m living? What have I tried this month? … Do the people I’m spending time with give me life, or make me feel small? Is there any brokenness in my life that’s keeping me from moving forward?”

Now is your time. Walk closely with people you love, and with people who believe … life is a grand adventure. Don’t get stuck in the past, and don’t try to fast-forward yourself into a future you haven’t yet earned. Give today all the love and intensity and courage you can, and keep traveling honestly along life’s path.

Fuck yes. 

Relevant magazine

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Covers for #6 (February)

Batman / Batman & Robin / Birds of Prey / Batwoman / Red Hood and The Outlaws / Nightwing / Batgirl / Catwoman

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